Sobriety News
April 2006

STATEMENT OF PURPOSE

The Sobriety News is a publication of the Harrisburg Area Intergroup of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is written, edited, and read by AA members, and those interested in the AA program of recovery from the disease of alcoholism, linking one alcoholic to another.
    Our desperation to find relief from the bondage of alcoholism has led us to this program as a new "design for living". Many members utilize meetings, sponsorship, self examination, amends, prayer, meditation, AA literature, service to fellow alcoholics, and many other tools to maintain their recovery. This publication is intended as one more tool to live a life of recovery. Because each AA member has an individual way of working this program, divergent views to recovery, within the concept of the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, are welcome. An effort is made to print all viewpoints in this forum. Articles are not intended to be statements of AA policy, nor does publication of any article imply endorsement by AA or the Harrisburg Area Intergroup.

April Calendar of Events
* Indicates Flyer on the Links page

April 1 Saturday 8:00PM Hershey Speaker Meeting Moses B from the Hershey Group
April 2 Sunday 9:00AM Out of the Dark Speaker Joe H
April 2 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge St. Speaker Jim S from TMTL Group
April 6 Thursday 6:45PM HAI Meeting @ Fellowship House
April 7 Friday 8:00PM 40th St. Speaker Alice M
April 7 Friday 8:30PM 19th St. Speaker Ricky Z
April 9 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge St. Speaker Kevin M from Happy Destiny
April 10 Monday 6:45 District 36 meeting @ Fellowship House, see flyer for more info*
April 14 Friday 8:30PM 19th St. Speaker Laurie B
Apr 14-16 Weekend   35th North Shore Roundup, Vancouver, BC http://www.northshoreroundup.com/ 
April 16 Sunday 800PM Bridge St. Speaker John G from Happy Destiny
April 21 Friday 8:30PM 19th St. Speaker Ron G
April 23 Sunday Noon HAI Easter Egg Hunt @ Fort Hunter 
April 23 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge St. Speaker Scott from Happy Destiny
April 27 Thursday 7:00PM Middletown Speaker Albert D
April 28 Friday 8:30PM 19th St Anniversaries
April 29 Saturday 12 - 5PM York Acts of Recovery @ 311 Haines Road in York*
April 30 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge St. Speakers Charlie T from Carlisle Sunday

Looking Ahead
May 4 Thursday 6:45PM HAI Meeting @ Fellowship House
May 5 Friday 5-830PM TMTL Group 17th Anniversary Speaker Georgia E
May 5 Friday 8:00PM 40th St. Speaker 
May 6 Saturday 8:00PM Hershey Speaker Meeting Vicki N
May 7 Sunday 9:00AM Out of the Dark Speaker
May 20 Saturday 11-4:00PM Lancaster Intergroup Day of Sharing*
May 21 Sunday 2:00PM SAM at 19th Street, Speaker Patty M from Bendersville non-smoking. Refreshment donations appreciated.
June 9-11 Weekend   61st Annual Texas State Convention http://www.txaa2006.org/
Aug 18-20 Weekend   9th annual Sunlight of the Spirit Conference, York, PA*
Aug 25-27 Weekend   18th annual PENNSCYPAA, Erie, PA.*
Sept 29-30 Friday 7:30-10:00 BBSG 3rd Annual Primary Purpose Workshop http://bbsgpa.org
  Saturday 9:00-4:00  
July 2008 TBD   Al-Anon International Convention - Pittsburgh, PA
July 2010 TBD   AA International Convention - San Antonio, TX

 

To links and current events

The Links Page
The AA blue button above will take you to the links and current events page. Did you know that the links page has links to Flyers of events, other AA websites and to back issues of Sobriety News? Currently, there is an ongoing project to add recreations of old paper copies of Sobriety News, so they too can be available freely to those who wish to browse.  You can make flyers of your group's activities available to others for printing off the internet by e-mailing a copy to jfee@comcast.net  Flyers will be added as they become available and removed when an event passes. If you are looking at this on the Internet, you will see that many of the insert pictures are links you can click on to get added information or flyers. Keep checking.

Swing Into Spring
    Nearly two hundred alcoholics in recovery attended the gala 'Swing into Spring' event at the Oberlin Firehall on March 18, and what a time they had. There were spicy meatballs, strawberries, chocolate and/or onion dip, veggies, cantaloupe, nachos, cheese, and cheese dip, and those famous Middletown desserts. And if that didn't give you your sugar fix, then you have a problem needing treatment. 
    Another kind of treatment was the subject of a short talk by Kristen S, (our Intergroup Chair) who talked about having come into Intergroup knowing little of what it did or why it was there. Now, as chairperson she was starting to feel burdened by putting this affair together until someone shared with her how they'd been in that situation too, and the spouse of a newcomer at a similar event came to her full of gratitude, saying that she had never known there were people like she saw there, and she was full of hope. Kristen shared briefly about all the things Intergroup does to enable AA's message to get to people who want recovery, but have no way to know how to get it. The reward of seeing that message delivered and how important it is to become involved in these service activities. It is what our Book tells us is our Program for recovery. 
    Leeann C followed with a brief rendition of her story, and how she had found in AA, what she had been looking for all along. She had always wanted to have a place where she fit in. She found that Alcoholics Anonymous is a place where there is a lot of work to be done in helping others recover too, and it all involves a fellowship of like minded people working together to help others, and by doing that, helping themselves become useful and joyful.
    And then came the non AA part of the event, the professional comedienne Jessica from New York City. You never saw so many people with tears in their eyes from the laughter. She certainly proved that WE are not a glum lot. 

Informational Speakers at District ~ Intergroup Joint Meeting

There will be an open event of an informational nature on the experiences of the Northeastern Pennsylvania Intergroup on ways Intergroup and the General Service structure can cooperate with each other to help better deliver the AA message within a geographic area. This will occur at the regular meeting of the General Service Meeting of District #36 at the Fellowship House on Monday April 10 at 6:45PM. All GSRs and other interested parties are invited to attend. Speakers from NEPA Intergroup will share their experience, and there will be refreshments. See you there!!

Acts of Recovery at York

The Acts of Recovery are a series of free AA conferences contained in a single Saturday afternoon, making it possible for those new in parenting, or in the job market, to obtain the flavor of conferences that can otherwise cost hundreds of dollars.  These events, condensed into five hours, provide four quality messages of experience, strength and hope, and a lunch, free of cost. Of course , you don't have to be new in recovery to take advantage of these opportunities. 

You can participate in this experience by attending the next York Acts on April 29, from noon till 5PM, with four great speakers who will be: Maureen M from Chatham, NJ "Finding A Power"; Jeff B. from Slippery Rock "Into Action"; Sara S from Phila. "Working With Others"; and George S. from Boston "Practice These Principles". See the flyer

TMTL Group 3rd annual Sponsorship Seminar

There’s More to Life Group had its 3rd annual Closed AA Sponsorship Seminar on Saturday March 11th from 10:00am – 1:00pm. at the Community United Methodist Church at 16th & Bridge Street in New Cumberland.   It was a rewarding and informative experience for more than 90 attendees.     

Every sponsor is necessarily a leader. The stakes are huge. A human life, and usually the happiness of a whole family, hangs in the balance. What the sponsor does and says, how well he estimates the reactions of his prospects, how well he times and makes his presentation, how well he handles criticisms, and how well he leads his prospect on by personal spiritual example - well, these attributes of leadership can make all the difference, often the difference between life and death." - Bill W."

What has become apparent to many of us who love AA is that where there is strong sponsorship, there is strong AA, where there is weak sponsorship, there is weak AA.

Recovery Golf League
A group of recovering alcoholics meet on Monday night to play golf.  If you would like to participate please contact Ray R, Jim M, Marc D or Dennis H (dph03@hotmail.com)

9th Annual Sunlight of the Spirit

The 9th Annual Sunlight of the Spirit Conference will be held this year August 18 through August 20. The location will again be the Holiday Inn on Arsenal Road (first road east of Interstate 83 at Rt. 30 exit). Registration is again $20.00 to cover the expense of the Convention. Register early, as the 400 available spaces go quickly and are usually sold by June. The tentative schedule is shown below. This is always an outstanding recovery event and we are lucky to have it so close by. You can complete and print the registration form at their website www.sosyorkpa.org/index.html

August 18 Friday 8:00PM Larry O Upper Marlboro, MD
August 19 Saturday 9:00AM Mari G Wasaga Beach, Ontario
August 19 Saturday 11:00AM Dennis N Charlotte, NC 
August 19 Saturday 4:00PM Patti O Laguna Nigel, CA
August 19 Saturday 8:00PM Wayne B Santa Monica, CA
August 20 Sunday 9:30AM Don M Louisville, KY

Area # 59 Meeting Schedules
There is a link to the Meeting Schedules here, ( if you have Microsoft Word,  you can print out the schedules that use the doc. extension). These schedules are current with the latest information available. If you see an error, or information for your meeting has been changed, the schedule will be updated if you notify us at schedule update ,or if you notify an Intergroup Officer,  or mail the info to HAI, Fellowship House, 1251 S. 19th Street, Harrisburg, PA 17105. 

There are schedules available for many Districts within Area # 59, including Lebanon, York and Lancaster Counties, as well as for District 42 (Sunbury-Lewistown), District 35 (Gettysburg-Chambersburg, and Hanover), District 38 Pottsville, Northeastern Pennsylvania (Wilkes-Barre-Scranton), Reading Area, Allentown-Bethlehem-Easton, Southeastern PA, and Williamsport District 48.

Hope sees the invisible
feels the intangible
and achieves the impossible

We need your help locating old copies of Sobriety News
We are looking for older copies of sobriety news that were created before the website was developed.  We have in archive everything from January 2000 to present plus the following older editions. 

1996 - August, October, November, December
1997 - January, March through the rest of the year,
1998 - January, February, March, June  

Sobriety News was first published in 1983. If you have one of the missing copies and would like to help, please contact asdungan@comcast.net or jfee@comcast.net We will make a copy of your edition and return it to you.  Thanks in advance for your help.

Carrying The Message
A complete Calendar of Events depends on our active members contributing information about their coming events, participation of Intergroups in surrounding Districts, and our ability to gather information. We feel it is worth trying. Let us know what you think. Often, we miss opportunities within the fellowship because the message didn't get out. We all want to carry the message to other alcoholics. This will be one more way we can accomplish that.

Traditions Checklist
The Traditions Checklist Questions were originally published in the AA Grapevine in conjunction with a series on the Twelve Traditions that began in November 1969, and ran through September 1971. Sobriety News prints the Checklist for the number of the month that corresponds to the number of the Tradition that it deals with, because of the prohibitive length of all twelve. It is important that we be aware of the Twelve Traditions in our lives of recovery, because they help assure that AA will continue to be here for us, and for others who want it.

TRADITION FOUR.  Each Group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or AA as a whole.

  1. Do I insist that there are only a few right ways of doing things in AA?
  2. Does my group always consider the welfare of the rest of AA? Of nearby groups? Of loners in Alaska? Of internationals miles from port? Of a group in Rome or El Salvador? 
  3. Do I put down other member's behavior when it is different from mine, or do I learn from it??
  4. Do I always bear in mind that, to those outsiders who know I am in AA, I may to some extent represent our entire beloved Fellowship?
  5. Am I willing to help a newcomer go to any lengths-his lengths, not mine-to stay sober?
  6. Do I share my knowledge of AA tools with other members who may not have heard of them?

Printed by permission. THE AA GRAPEVINE INC., PO BOX 1980, GRAND CENTRAL STATION, NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10163-1980

12 Concepts Illustrated

From the publication Concepts Illustrated, The Sobriety News will publish the Concept each month, which corresponds to the number of the month, because we so seldom are exposed to these very important concepts of relationships, whether it
be between levels of the organization, or members of a family.

Concept IV

Throughout our Conference structure, we ought to maintain at all responsible levels a traditional "Right of Participation," taking care that each classification or group of our world servants shall be allowed a voting representation in reasonable proportion to the responsibility that each must discharge.

The principle of "Right of Participation" is built into the General Service Conference through the Conference Charter. Voting Members include not only delegates, but also the trustees, and the directors and staff members of AA World Services (i. e., GSO) and the AA Grapevine.

In the Same way, the boards of these two operating entities include as voting members not only trustees, but also non-trustee directors and paid administrators and staff members.

The Chairperson of the General Service Board appoints non-trustee members to the standing committees in order to have the advantage of their expertise, and staff members serve as committee secretaries. "There are no 'superiors,' no 'inferiors,' and no 'advisers.'"  New trustees on the General Service Board and new directors of the AAWS and Grapevine boards are sometimes surprised to see paid executives, staff members and outside accountants attending the board meetings. They are invited because of AA's "Right of Participation." Thus the trustees and directors" are put into direct communication with these workers, who... feel wanted and needed. Although they do not vote, these workers may freely participate."

Bill warns against the possibility of new delegates or trustees trying to "weaken, modify, or toss out" the "Right of Participation." He cites arguments by delegates to take away the trustees', directors', and staff members' votes at the Conference. Certainly, he says, "our trustees and service workers are not less conscientious, experienced, and wise than the delegates."

"It is vital," he continues, "to preserve the traditional 'Right of Participation,' in the face of every tendency to whittle it down."

Finally, there is a spiritual reason for the "Right of Participation." All of us desire to belong. In AA, no members are "second class." The "Right of Participation" therefore reinforces Tradition Two, that no member is placed in "ultimate authority" over another. We perform our service tasks better "when we are sure we belong - when our 'participation' assures us we are truly the 'trusted servants' described in Tradition Two."

“I am responsible when anyone anywhere reaches out for help, I want the hand of AA to always be there and for that I am responsible”.

Help for the Hearing Impaired
If anyone in our AA community knows sign language and is willing to be of service, there is a need in the Harrisburg Area for your help.  If you are willing to help a hearing impaired person please notify Intergroup through your Intergroup rep.

Not everything that is faced can be changed
but nothing can be changed until it is faced

Internet Source for Recorded AA Talks
There is a new source for some good AA recording of talks from the Harbor City Speakers, Acts of Recovery.  South College Speaker Group, Steps in Action, Unity in Action, White Rose and various others.  These are free for you to download in MP3 format on your computer.  The Web address is http://greatfact.org/  You can hear speakers from the Greater Harrisburg Acts of Recovery that you may have missed.

One who lacks courage to start
has already finished

Anecdotage

OLD TIME AA

1- It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it.

2- If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress.

3- An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating.

4- Sobriety is the leading cause of relapse.

5- A treatment center is where you go and pay $15,000 to find out that AA meetings are free.

6- The idea that alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, overeaters, smokers, etc., etc., should all just go to AA Meetings because a disease, is a disease, is a disease...was started by a treatment center that only had one van.

7- This is a 'One Day at a Time' program. If you are clean and sober today, you are tied for first place in AA.

8- If drinking is interfering with your work, you're probably a heavy drinker. If work is interfering with your drinking, you're probably an alcoholic.

9- I often obsessively pursue feeling good, no matter how bad it makes me feel.

10- When I was new, I didn't think I had any obsessions until I started thinking about it. Then it was all I could think about.

11- How come if alcohol kills millions of brain cells, it never killed the ones that made me want to drink?

12- From a newcomer reading the 'Promises' for the first time: "We will comprehend the word cemetery and we will know peace."

13- If God were small enough to be understood, He wouldn't be big enough to be God!

14- If you want to quit drinking; you are going to have to quit drinking.

15- Newcomer: How do I know how many meetings I should attend each week?

Old-timer: Gradually cut back until you get drunk. Then you'll know.

16- I would rather go through life sober, believing I am an alcoholic, than go through life drunk, trying to convince myself that I am not an alcoholic.

17- Resentments are like stray cats: if you don't feed them, they'll go away.

18- The difference between a problem drinker and an Alcoholic is that: (A) When alcohol is taken away from the problem drinker, the problem goes away.
(B) When alcohol is taken away from the Alcoholic, the problem begins.

19- Before I came into AA, I was dead, but I did not know enough to lay down.

20- I drank when I was happy. I drank when I was unhappy. Actually, I am a reason to drink.

21- You don't have to be sick to want to get well. But if you don't want to get well, you ARE sick.

22- I can't do His will my way.

23- In order to change the way we feel we need to change the way we act.  There is only one way to coast, and that is down hill.

23- The good news is you get your emotions back; the bad news is you get your emotions back.

24- All we ask is that you completely change your attitude as soon as possible.

25- I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all.

26- Joy isn't the absence of pain -- it's the presence of God.

Where do I find recovery?
Twelve steps past any lengths

New Meetings and Changes

The There is a Solution Group which meets on Thursdays at 6:30 on Jerusalem Rd. in Mechanicsburg is in need of support.

The Out of the Dark Group has changed it's format for the 1st Sunday of each month.  The group meets at 9:00AM at the Wormleysburg Borough Hall and starting in March, 2006 the meeting will be an open speakers meeting.

The Millersburg Group which formerly met on Monday Nights has changed the name of the group to The Open Door Group and will now meet on Tuesdays at 8:00PM.  The meeting is held at the Feed My Sheep Ministries located at 242 Market St, Millersburg.  The format is Open discussion and it is a non-smoking meeting.

The new Loysville "Empty Jug" meeting has moved to the Assembly of God Church on 6th Street in Newport. The meetings are still Saturday nights at 7:00PM, and the formats are unchanged, see the flyer

There is a change of place for the Sunday night Al-Anon meeting. Formerly Holy Spirit Hospital, now at the: Chapel Hill UCC (corner of Poplar Church & Erford Rds.), entrance in rear of church, 2nd floor-Rm. 4. Also, Al-Anon's next District meeting is on Tues. Jan. 31st @ 6:00 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Camp Hill Rm. 232.

A new meeting called the Grantville AA Group has started on Tuesday Evenings .  The meeting is an Open Discussion, Non-Smoking meeting.  The meeting is held at 146 Firehouse Rd (use rear entrance).  The building is located across the road from St. John's United Methodist Church.  Parking is available in the church parking lot.  More information is available @ 469-2577.

The heaviest thing to carry is a resentment

March Intergroup Meeting
Chairperson Kris S. opened the meeting with the serenity prayer.

C0-Chairperson Kevin B announced that a committee is being formed to revise the by-laws.  Intergroup donated 10 Big Books and 10 12&12's to Dauphin Co. prison-Women.

The following groups were represented at the meeting, BBSG, Dillsburg, Survivors, TMTL, Hershey, 19th St. Trinity West Shore, Rule #62, The Way Out, 40th St., Winding it Up.   WAS YOUR GROUP REPRESENTED.

Donations

February's donation to Intergroup from the local groups totaled $452.50.  Contributions were received from Winding it Up, Chapter 5 How it Works, Bill & Kathy P, West Shore Area Women, Harrisburg Area West Shore Women, and The Way Out Group.  If you are mailing donations to either Intergroup or District please use the following addresses:

Harrisburg Area Intergroup                                 District 36
1251 S. 19th St.                                                    PO Box 5325
Harrisburg, PA. 17104                                          Harrisburg, PA. 17110

Also, the addresses for contributions to Area 59  and GSO are

Eastern PA General Service Area 59                    General Service Office
1112 Silver Maple Dr.                                           Box #459
Clarks Summit , PA 18411                                     Grand Central Station, New York, NY 10163

Pearl of the Month   © 
Language of the Heart, p 268

The practice of AA's Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions in our personal lives also brought incredible releases from fear of every description, despite the wide prevalence of formidable personal problems. When fear did persist, we knew it for what it was, and under God's grace we became able to handle it. We began to see each adversity as a God given opportunity to develop the kind of courage which is born of humility, rather than of bravado. Thus we were enabled to accept ourselves, or circumstances, and our fellows. Under God's grace we even found that we could die with decency, dignity, and faith, knowing that "the Father doeth the works."

Food For Thought
Contributions are made to Food For Thought by recovering alcoholics who have this outlet to share feelings and opinions about living in recovery. The material included does not necessarily express the views of Harrisburg Area Intergroup, or Alcoholics Anonymous. It is simply an opportunity for recovering alcoholics to express thoughts they would like to share. Why not share something of yourself with our readers?

The beginning of the spiritual journey is the realization (not just the INFORMATION but the real interior conviction) that: 

1) there is a Higher Power or God or (to make it as easy as possible for everybody) there is an "Other".
2) To try to become the "Other", to live from that place within us.
And finally,
3) the realization that there is no "Other", you and the Other are One.  Always have been, always will be.  You just think that you aren't.
 
Fr. Thomas Keating, Christian Contemplative, from the soon to be released movie "One"

I am responsible for the effort
not the outcome

This Month in AA History
1935 - Bill W had a talk with Dr. Silkworth who advised him to stop preaching about his "hot flash" and hit the alcoholics hard with the medical view.  Silkworth advised Bill to break down the strong egos of the alcoholics by telling them about the obsession that condemned them to drink and allergy that condemned them to go mad or die. 

1939 - 4,730 copies of the first Ed. of Alcoholics Anonymous were published at a selling price of $3.50.  The printer was told to use the thickest paper in his shop.  The large, bulky volume became known as the "Big Book"  The idea was to convince the alcoholic he was getting his money's worth.  Ray C (An Artist's Concept) designed the "circus color" dust jacket.  The book had 8 roman and 400 Arabic numbered pages.  The Doctor's Opinion started at page 1 and the basic text ended at page 174.  29 stories were included.

1941 - After 23 years of marriage Bill W and Lois moved into their own home in Bedford Hills, NY.  It was first named Bill-Lo's Break and later renamed to Stepping Stones.  

1945 - Earl T founder of AA in Chicago (He Sold Himself Short) suggested to Bill W that he codify the Traditions and write essays on them in the Grapevine.  Initially, the Twelve Traditions were  presented as An Alcoholics Anonymous Tradition of Relations - Twelve points to Assure our Future.

1951 - The 1st experimental General Service Conference (GSC) was held in NYC.  It was composed of 37 US and Canadian Delegates plus AA's General Service Headquarter staff and Trustees.  Delegates took office for a 2 year term.  At the close of the conference, Lois W and her close friend Ann B, invited the delegates wives and local family group members to Stepping Stones to discuss an organization for what was then called AA Family Groups.

1960 - Bill W declined the opportunity to be on the cover of Time magazine.  Father Ed Dowling (Bill's Spiritual Advisor) dies in Memphis, TN.  In a talk at the 10th GSC, Bill W announced for the past 3 years he had been working on codifying principles and developing essays for the structure of the Third Legacy of Service. The principles were announced as the Twelve Concepts of World Service.

1973 - Distribution of the Big Book reached the one million mark.  The millionth copy was presented to President Nixon in the White House.

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