Sobriety News
October 2004

STATEMENT OF PURPOSE

    The Sobriety News is a publication of the Harrisburg Area Intergroup of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is written, edited, and read by AA members, and those interested in the AA program of recovery from the disease of alcoholism, linking one alcoholic to another.
    Our desperation to find relief from the bondage of alcoholism has led us to this program as a new "design for living". Many members utilize meetings, sponsorship, self examination, amends, prayer, meditation, AA literature, service to fellow alcoholics, and many other tools to maintain their recovery. This publication is intended as one more tool to live a life of recovery. Because each AA member has an individual way of working this program, divergent views to recovery, within the concept of the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, are welcome. An effort is made to print all viewpoints in this forum. Articles are not intended to be statements of AA policy, nor does publication of any article imply endorsement by AA or the Harrisburg Area Intergroup.

October Calendar of Events*

Oct 1 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Speaker
Oct 2 Saturday 12 - 5:00PM Newark, DE Acts of Recovery Conference**
Oct 2 Saturday 8:00PM Hershey Speaker Geneva B from There's More To Life
Oct 3 Sunday8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Matt T from West Shore Area
Oct 8 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Speaker
Oct 10 Sunday8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Mike D from West Shore Area
Oct 15 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Speaker Duane G
Oct 17 Sunday 1:00PM Winding It Up Group Serenity Hike at Lykens**
Oct 17 Sunday8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Joe F from Monday Night Men's
Oct 21 Thursday 7:00PM Middletown Survivors Speaker
Oct 22 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Speaker Deb M
Oct 23 Saturday 5:30PM  Middletown 15th Anniversary Spaghetti Dinner
Oct 23 Saturday 12 - 5:00PM Boston Acts of Recovery Conference**
Oct 24 Sunday8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Matt A from West Shore Area
Oct 28 Thursday 7:00PM Middletown Survivors Speaker
Oct 29 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Anniversary Night
Oct 30 Saturday Noon - 5:00PM Charlottesville VA Acts of Recovery**
Oct 31 Sunday8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Pat R from Belmar, NJ

 

LOOKING AHEAD

Nov 6 Saturday 10:00AM-1:00PM TMTL Group's 2nd Annual Sponsorship Workshop (see flier)
Nov 6 Saturday 8:00PM Hershey Speaker Georgia S from Fellowship House
Nov 7 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge Street Speaker Tereze from Women's Serenity
Nov 12-14 Fri-Sunday Pockets of Enthusiasm Conf. - Virginia Beach

Nov 20

Saturday Noon-5PM

Greater Harrisburg Area Acts of Recovery at Middletown
Dec 11 Saturday 6:00PM Hershey Holiday Dinner w/ speaker Mary J at 8:00PM**
Jun 30-Jul 3, 2005 Thurs-Sun 70th Year AA International Convention in Toronto, Canada**
To register now visit:
https://www.one-stop-registration.com/2005ic/OSR.Index
July 2008   International Convention of Al-Anon in Pittsburgh, PA
* Look for more information about these events in Sobriety News.
** See links page for flyer
 

To links and current events

Your Help for the Calendar of Events

A complete Calendar of Events depends on our active members contributing information about their coming events, participation of Intergroups in surrounding Districts, and our ability to gather information. We feel it is worth trying. Let us know what you think. Often, we miss opportunities within the fellowship because the message didn't get out. We all want to carry the message to other alcoholics. This will be one more way we can accomplish that.

OUR FACE IS CHANGING

    Sobriety News is updated during the course of the month, so events can be added to the Calendar. You may, therefore, find it helpful or informative to check back to the website periodically to see what has been added.
    The HAI index page has links to flyers of coming events, or you can click on the AA blue button above. Did you know that the links page also has links to other AA websites and to back issues of Sobriety News? Also there is a link to the Meeting Schedule (or click the coin at right) so you can print out the schedule (if you can access Microsoft Word) on a single sheet of 8 1/2X11 paper. This schedule is current with the latest information available. If you see an error, or information for your meeting has been changed, the schedule will be updated if you notify us at aa@aaharrisburg.org , or if you notify an Intergroup Officer,  or mail the info to HAI, Fellowship House, 1251 S. 19th Street, Harrisburg, PA 17105. This current schedule can be duplicated for group purposes from this link or by clicking on the chip at the right.
    Flyers will be added as they become available and removed when an event passes. If you are looking at this on the Internet, you will see that many of the insert pictures are links you can click on to get added information or flyers. Keep checking.
    The above suggested service opportunity to bring internet information back to the group could also be broadened to include flyers, and current meeting schedules. The printed schedules and flyers will still be available but may continue to have their current disadvantages too.

19th Street Dance Update

19th Street's dance will be held on Oct. 2nd will DJ Pat Evans ( Please see flier). Our dance on Nov. 6th will be a costume party dance with a judging contest (more details later). 

Middletown 15th Anniversary

The Middletown Groups will be having their 15th annual Spaghetti Dinner and Anniversary Celebration on October 23rd at the Middletown Presbyterian Church. Of course there will be the usual spaghetti, desserts, fellowship and recovery messages. The Spaghetti dinner will begin at 5:30PM and as usual dessert contributions will be welcome. There will be two speakers, beginning at 7:00PM will be Matt C from the Bug Light Group of York, a short break to finish up some desserts, and then Jane C, also of the York Bug Light Speakers Meeting. If you've never experienced the Middletown hospitality, food, desserts, and recovery message, you're in for a treat; if you have, you already know what's up. The Middletown Presbyterian Church is located on the corner of North Union and East Water Streets, which is one block South of the Middletown Square.

SERENITY HIKE

The annual Serenity Hike sponsored by the Winding It Up Group of Lykens will be held October 17 at 1 p.m. at the Lykens Community Park. We hike to Love Rock where we listen to a whole lot of outlandish tales as to the origin of the name "Love Rock" and have an AA meeting.  Then we come back down the mountain (really just a high hill) and pig out on all the chili and pie you can eat.  And it's all free. In case it rains on the 17th, we've scheduled a rain date for October 24.  

To get to Lykens Community Park: Take Rte. 147N to the "triangle" in Halifax. At the traffic signal make a left onto 147-225 and proceed to the "T" on Rte 225 in Halifax Borough. Make a right and proceed on 225 to Elizabethville (8-9 miles). Make a right onto Rte. 209 at traffic signal. Proceed on Rte. 209 to Lykens (about 7 miles). At traffic light in Lykens, make a right. Go two blocks and make a left into Community Park. If you need more info or want to bring some goodies to add to the feast, call Cathy S. at 362-3207, Cindy W. at 362-4497, or Bill C. at 362-9352.

There are only two things an alcoholic doesn't like;
the way things are,
and change.

Harrisburg Area Acts of Recovery

There will be another Acts of Recovery at the Middletown Presbyterian Church on the 20th of November, starting at noon, as usual. There will be four enthusiastic speakers carrying this message, of how they received a spiritual awakening as a result of working these Steps. The speakers are: Krystal B from York, topic Fully Conceded; Matthew L from Hershey, topic Willing To Believe; Nancy P from Richmond, VA, topic Practical Experience; and Bob H from Middletown, topic Happy Destiny. The afternoon of recovery messages will be interrupted at about 2:15 for a FREE light lunch.

Meetings: a check-up from the neck up.

Big Book Study Group 1st Anniversary

On Tuesday evening September 7, The BBSG celebrated their first anniversary of studying the message, with speaker Bill M from the Hilltop Group of York, and a birthday cake. Bill related the story of when his first daughter was born, she was diagnosed with cancer, and they operated on her almost immediately to try and save her life. Bill was sure his baby would die. There was a fellow named Steve at the hospital; he and Bill didn't like each other very much because of a difference of egos. Steve's daughter had just died under similar circumstances, but Steve expressed love and faith in trying to comfort Bill, without regard to his own personal loss. This so impressed Bill, that he began to think positively. That daughter is now 15 years old, and Steve drove him to New Cumberland that night so he could tell his experience strength and hope, because Bill just had arthroscopy surgery several days before, and could not drive. What a wonderfully revealing spiritual message of how offering help to another relieves one's own suffering, and turns enemies to friends.

Bridge Street 30th Anniversary

Congratulations to the Bridge Street Group on thirty years of carrying the message. This group had its humble beginnings at the Detox Unit of Holy Spirit Hospital in September 1974 as a Sunday evening Open Speaker Meeting. It moved to Trinity Methodist Church at 421 Bridge Street, New Cumberland, in 1997 as the Bridge Street Group and continues today. A considerable crowd of celebrants gathered September 12 in the large fellowship hall of the church for cold cuts, potato and macaroni salad, chips and copious deserts before the entertaining message from the guest speaker, Bill F, from Baltimore environs. Bill explained to us the difference between God's mercy and God's grace. God's mercy is that He doesn't give us what we deserve; and God's grace is that He gives us what we haven't earned. Bill shared a wonderful story of how he received both, and convinced us that the joy  and love he showed is available to us all.

It's not making a mistake that will kill me;
It's defending it that does the damage.

 

New Meetings and Changes

The Any Lengths Group has had to change locations to the Progress Immanuel Presbyterian Church, and as a result other changes had to occur. The new meeting location is 3640 Ash Street (from the old location, go in Rt 22 for three blocks toward Harrisburg to Park Street  (BALLOONS  ALOT ON LEFT) Turn left onto Park Street, Church is 2 blocks on right). The group will meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 7:00PM and both are closed, non-smoking, discussion meetings.

The Late Night Group is no longer meeting, and has been removed from the schedule.

The Joy of Living Group is up and meeting at the Fellowship House every Wednesday night at 6pm. We need support and we are looking for volunteers for secretary. Anyone wishing to secretary this meeting may contact Janice at the Wednesday night meeting.                            

19th Street is starting it's monthly dances again. They will be on the first Saturday of the month unless there may be something else going on at the Fellowship House. Adult admissions cost $5.00. It should be a great time for all. Any questions or directions to the Fellowship House at 1251 So. 19th St. Harrisburg, call Bill P. at 215-8377.

Please support the Friday night Women's meeting at the Dauphin County Prison. For more information on how to do this important service work, call Sondra D at 566-7666.

True religion is the life we lead,
not the creed we profess.

 

This-n-That

Don't forget the Harrisburg Area Intergroup meeting Thursday October 7, at 6:45pm, and the District 36 General Service Rep meeting on Monday October 11, at 6:30; both meetings need your support. The Intergroup Bookstore is still open for business following the HAI meeting and on Saturday mornings from 10:00 till 11:15 for Groups to restock their literature cabinets with books and pamphlets.

September Intergroup Meeting

At the September meeting of Intergroup, Chairperson Albert D opened the meeting with the serenity prayer. The cell phone stopped working, and it was replaced and a new agreement with Cingular was reached, which allows 800 hours for a monthly charge of $59.95. There was discussion of possible future Intergroup sponsored events during 2005, and it was asked that groups think about what kind of event might be held. There was discussion of whether it should be about recovery or should be for fun. It was suggested that if groups want their contributions spent on recovery, maybe they should send a Representative to Intergroup Meetings, or otherwise be accepting of how their money is spent.

The State Hospital was covered in September by the Out of the Dark Group, the Middletown Groups will cover October and There's More To Life will take this opportunity in November. The Big Book Study Group responded to cell phone calls in September. Groups volunteering to take the phone for October and beyond, Middletown (Oct), There's More To Life (Nov.), and Hershey (Dec.). Volunteers for the various county and state prison and Gaudenzia Juvenile facilities continue to carry the message to those who hope to change their lives through a more spiritual way of living; if you'd like to benefit from this 12th Step opportunity, see your Intergroup Rep, or leave a message with the hot line at 234-5390.

Pearl Of The Month    
(contributed by Charlotte F. from Alcoholics Anonymous page 84)
We have entered the world of the Spirit.  Our next function is to grow in understanding and effectiveness,  This is not an overnight matter.  It should continue for a lifetime.  Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment, and fear.  When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them.


Traditions Checklist

TRADITION TEN: Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy. 

    1. Do I ever give the impression that there really is an "AA opinion" on Antabuse? Tranquilizers? Doctors? Psychiatrists? Churches? Hospitals? Jails? Alcohol? The Federal or State Government? Legalizing marijuana? Al-Anon? Alateen?
    2. Can I honestly share my own personal experience concerning any of those without giving the impression I am stating the "AA opinion"?
    3. What in AA history gave rise to our Tenth Tradition?
    4. Have I had a similar experience in my own AA life?
    5. What would AA be without this Tradition? Where would I be?
    6. Do I breach this or any of its supporting Traditions in subtle, perhaps unconscious ways?
    7. How can I manifest the spirit of this Tradition in my personal life outside AA? Inside AA?

*The Traditions Checklist Questions were originally published in the AA Grapevine in conjunction with a series on the Twelve Traditions that began in November 1969, and ran through September 1971. Sobriety News prints the Checklist for the number of the month that corresponds to the number of the Tradition that it deals with, because of the prohibitive length of all twelve. It is important that we be aware of the Twelve Traditions in our lives of recovery, because they help assure that AA will continue to be here for us, and for others who want it.
Printed by permission. THE AA GRAPEVINE INC., PO BOX 1980, GRAND CENTRAL STATION, NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10163-1980

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Contributions are made to Food For Thought by recovering alcoholics who have this outlet to share feelings and opinions about living in recovery. The material included does not necessarily express the views of Harrisburg Area Intergroup, or Alcoholics Anonymous. It is simply an opportunity for recovering alcoholics to express thoughts they would like to share. Why not share something of yourself with our readers? The history of our fellowship is significant to our understanding of what a miracle is this Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, and we therefore will publish a three part account of the impact the Oxford Group had on the formation of AA. We thank our Archives Committee for gleaning this information from the internet as it was written by Ray R. of the Seminole, Florida Find Yourself Group.

Who was Frank Buchman?

After graduating from Muhlenberg College in Allentown, Pennsylvania, Frank Buchman became a Lutheran minister.

While attending a worship service in England, he became convinced that God was calling him for something more.

He returned to America and became the secretary of the YMCA at Penn State and started converting campus hell-raisers left and right.

His evolvement into the leadership of the Oxford Group is well documented in this booklet.

The low point for the Oxford Group came in 1936 when Buchman made some favorable comments about Hitler, suggesting that the German dictator had done a service by stopping Communism and that a man with absolute power—if he became a Christian— could solve the world’s problems. Newspapers around the world made it sound as if Buchman wanted Germans to goose-step to God. In fact, he probably had little understanding of Hitler or Nazism.

Suffering a stroke in 1942, Buchman returned to Allentown, where he stayed until the end of World War II.

Later he established Moral-Rearmament, an outgrowth of the Oxford Movement, in Switzerland. (Moral Rearmament still exists.)

On August 7, 1961, Buchman died at a Swiss hotel. His body was returned to Allentown, where he was buried, surrounded by his followers from around the world.

—Lehigh County Historical Society

Information in this booklet, excluding the Buchman profile above, has been
checked for accuracy by AA in New York.

 

The Oxford Group Connection
by Ray R from The Find Yourself Group
of Seminole, Fla.

    This article is an effort to put together in sequence the various events that took place in the years from 1908 to 1935 which made possible the meeting in Akron, Ohio, between the AA founders, Dr. Bob S. and Bill W., which resulted in the subsequent birth of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is an assemblage of facts gleaned from the following publications:.

Alcoholics Anonymous
AA Comes of Age
 
Pass It On  
Dr. Bob and the Good Old Timers 
Not God
by Ernest Kurtz
 
For Sinners Only by A.J. Russell 
On the Tail of a Comet by Garth Lean 
Akron Genesis of Alcoholics Anonymous by Dick B. 
The Oxford Group & Alcoholics Anonymous by Dick B.

    Do you know any of these names—Frank Buchman, Sam Shoemaker, Rowland Hazard, Jim Newton, Eleanor Forde, Ebby Thacher, Shepard Cornell, Henrietta Seiberling, Rev. Walter Tunks, Norman Shepherd, Russell Firestone, and T. Henry & Clarace Williams?

    All of these people were instrumental in a scenario that contributed to making possible that historic meeting between Bill W. and Doctor Bob at the Gate House of the Seiberling Estate in Akron, Ohio, on May 11, 1935.

    If it were not for them, that meeting could never have taken place, and the fellowship to which we all owe our lives today might never have been born.

    Where did the steps originate? In AA Comes of Age, Bill wrote ‘Early AA got its ideas of self-examination, acknowledgement of character defects, restitution for harm done, and working with others straight from the Oxford Groups and directly from Sam Shoemaker, their former leader in America, and nowhere else."

Frank Buchman and the Oxford Group

    We start this history with the story of Frank Buchman, the founder of the Oxford Group (See above.) You will see as we trace the paths of Dr. Bob and Bill W., in the years before they met, that the Oxford Group and the aforementioned cast of characters played a part in every twist and turn of the path that led Bill Wilson to Akron.

    In 1908, a YMCA secretary named Frank Buchman had a spiritual transformation that changed his life. Upon graduating in June of that year, he started a streetside church in Philadelphia (Church of the Good Shepherd) with a donation of seventeen dollars. The church flourished, and he started a young-men’s hospice which spread to other cities, and then he started a settlement house project.

    Frank had a violent argument with his trustee committee because they had cut the budget and the food allotment at the hospices. Frank resigned and went to Europe, ending up at a large religious convention in Keswick, England.

"And when we were wrong~"

    The spiritual transformation occurred when he heard a woman speaker talk simply about the cross of Christ. He felt the chasm separating him from Christ, and felt a will to surrender. He went back to his house and wrote these words to each of his six trustees in Philadelphia: "My dear friend. I have nursed ill feelings against you. I am sorry. Will you forgive me? Sincerely, Frank."

    Feeling an urge to share this experience, he went to nearby Oxford University and formed an evangelical group there among the student leaders and athletes. Later the movement spread, and groups formed over the next twenty years in England, Scotland, Holland, India, South Africa, China, Egypt, Switzerland, and North and South America.

Their principles are now ours.

    Many of the basic things they did have carried over directly into our program. They practiced absolute surrender, guidance by the Holy Spirit, bringing about true fellowship through sharing, and life changing faith and prayer. They aimed for absolute standards of love, purity, honesty, and unselfishness, which were an integral part of the first AA programs in Akron, Cleveland and New York.

    Above all the group was a fellowship— "A First Century Christian Fellowship." They carried the message aggressively to others. They met in churches, universities, and homes. The Oxford Group and their principles were carried to the United States so that in both New York City and Akron an Oxford Group was in place and functioning when Bill W. and Dr. Bob hit their respective bottoms. These groups taught their principles to our co-founders before they ever met.

Oxford Group Comes to America

    Here is how the Oxford Group came to the United States. One early member of Oxford, Ken Twitchell, had attended Princeton University and had a brother in New York City who was a mainstay in the Calvary Episcopal Church.

    This becomes one of several amazing coincidences. In 1918 during his travels, Frank Buchman met a young YMCA worker, Sam Shoemaker, in China and converted him to the Oxford Group principles. Years later, Sam became the minister of that same Calvary Church in New York, and that church became the titular American headquarters for the Oxford Group during the I930s. It was here in the church’s mission that Bill W.’s sponsor, Ebby Thacher, was living at the time of Bill’s last drunk. The name was changed in 1928 from "A First Century Christian Fellowship" to the "Oxford Group."

    The group’s popularity peaked during this period. There were 10,000 people at one meeting at Stockbridge in the Berkshire Mountains. Business teams began to have their "house parties~~* in various cities.

*Editor’s note: Many in the Oxford Movement made no bones about their animosity toward alcoholics and their preference for people of wealth at their so-called "house parties." These attitudes created a rift between the groups.

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