Sobriety News
December 2004

STATEMENT OF PURPOSE

    The Sobriety News is a publication of the Harrisburg Area Intergroup of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is written, edited, and read by AA members, and those interested in the AA program of recovery from the disease of alcoholism, linking one alcoholic to another.
    Our desperation to find relief from the bondage of alcoholism has led us to this program as a new "design for living". Many members utilize meetings, sponsorship, self examination, amends, prayer, meditation, AA literature, service to fellow alcoholics, and many other tools to maintain their recovery. This publication is intended as one more tool to live a life of recovery. Because each AA member has an individual way of working this program, divergent views to recovery, within the concept of the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, are welcome. An effort is made to print all viewpoints in this forum. Articles are not intended to be statements of AA policy, nor does publication of any article imply endorsement by AA or the Harrisburg Area Intergroup.

December Calendar of Events*

Dec 2 Thursday 6:45PM          HAI Intergroup meeting
Dec 3 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street speaker Matt S from Lambda Grp
Dec 5 Sunday3:30PM  Workshop ~ Cell Phone Usage
Dec 5 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge Street speaker Joe G from 40th Street
Dec 10 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street speaker Patrick D from York
Dec 11 Saturday 6:00PM Annual Hershey Holiday Dinner**
Dec 12 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge Street speaker Bob B from Hershey
Dec 13 Monday 6:30PM District # 36 General Service Meeting
Dec 17 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street speaker Kay from 8AM York
Dec 18 Saturday 12~5PM York Acts of Recovery**
Dec 19 Sunday 6:30PM Bridge Street Holiday Event finger food, desserts, and Annette S from TMTL Group
Dec 23 Thursday 7:00PM Middletown Survivors speaker
Dec 24 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Alcathon
Dec 26 Sunday 8:00PM Bridge Street speaker Cathy S from Lykens
Dec 30 Thursday 7:00PM Middletown Survivors Anniversary speaker
Dec 31 Friday 8:30PM 19th Street Anniversary Night

LOOKING AHEAD

Jan  1 Saturday 8:00PM Hershey speaker Ed L from the Desire Group
Jan 15 Saturday 12 - 5PM Acts of Recovery in North Jersey **
Jan 29 Saturday 12 - 5PM Falls Church Acts of NoVa**
Feb 26 Saturday 5:30PM - ? Intergroup Winter Dinner Speaker/Dance**
Mar 18 - 20 Fri - Sun Serenity Weekend Richmond, VA**
Mar 29 Thu - Sun EACYPAA Conference in Wilmington, NC
Jun 30 - Jul 3, 2005 Thurs - Sun 70thYear AA International Convention in Toronto, Canada**
To register now visit:
https://www.one-stop-registration.com/2005ic/OSR.Index
July 2008 International Convention of Al-Anon in Pittsburgh, PA
* Look for more information about these events in Sobriety News.
** See links page for flyer
 

To links and current events

Your Help for the Calendar of Events

A complete Calendar of Events depends on our active members contributing information about their coming events, participation of Intergroups in surrounding Districts, and our ability to gather information. We feel it is worth trying. Let us know what you think. Often, we miss opportunities within the fellowship because the message didn't get out. We all want to carry the message to other alcoholics. This will be one more way we can accomplish that.

OUR FACE IS CHANGING

    Sobriety News is updated during the course of the month, so events can be added to the Calendar. You may, therefore, find it helpful or informative to check back to the website periodically to see what has been added.
    The HAI index page has links to flyers of coming events, or you can click on the AA blue button above. Did you know that the links page also has links to other AA websites and to back issues of Sobriety News? Also there is a link to the Meeting Schedule (or click the coin at right) so you can print out the schedule (if you can access Microsoft Word) on a single sheet of 8 1/2X11 paper. This schedule is current with the latest information available. If you see an error, or information for your meeting has been changed, the schedule will be updated if you notify us at aa@aaharrisburg.org , or if you notify an Intergroup Officer,  or mail the info to HAI, Fellowship House, 1251 S. 19th Street, Harrisburg, PA 17105. This current schedule can be duplicated for group purposes from this link or by clicking on the chip at the right.
    Flyers will be added as they become available and removed when an event passes. If you are looking at this on the Internet, you will see that many of the insert pictures are links you can click on to get added information or flyers. Keep checking.
    The above suggested service opportunity to bring internet information back to the group could also be broadened to include flyers, and current meeting schedules. The printed schedules and flyers will still be available but may continue to have their current disadvantages too.

INTERGROUP HOT LINE TRAINING SEMINAR

Sunday, December 5 at 3:30PM, at Fellowship House at 1251 South 19th Street, Harrisburg. This program will last about one hour, and will address both the operation of the cell phone device, and the process by which a volunteer helps the Hot Line Caller. There will be free food afterward with your usual fellowship. If you are sometimes diverted from service work by fear, this will be an excellent way to try and dispel fear of the unknown, so that you can become of service to your God and fellow alcoholic in this way.

 

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.

 

Annual Hershey Holiday Dinner 

The Annual Hershey Holiday Dinner and Speaker meeting will be held this year on December 11 at the Derry Presbyterian Church, corner of Mansion and Derry Roads in Hershey. The Hershey Group will provide Turkey, Ham, and beverages; guests are encouraged to bring side dishes or desserts to share. Dinner will begin at 6:00PM. The evenings speaker will be Mary J from the 19th Street Group and she will share her experience, strength and hope starting at 8:00PM. This is always a very nice way to get into the Christmas mood and do it in a safe and joyous place. Directions: Mansion Road is the first left heading east on Chocolate Ave after you pass the Hershey Chocolate factory. The Church is on the corner at the stop sign, but you must turn left on Derry Road to the entrance to the Church parking.

 

Harrisburg Area Acts of Recovery

There was another Acts of Recovery at the Middletown Presbyterian Church on the 20th of November. There were four enthusiastic speakers carrying this message ~ of how they received a spiritual awakening as a result of working these Steps. The afternoon of recovery messages was briefly interrupted at about 2:15 for a FREE light lunch. Conferences supply a message of hope and method for sobriety through speakers some find to be particularly gifted at expression of pertinent thought, while having a certain entertainment value. The Acts of Recovery, spreading rapidly across the country, do this free of cost, and condensed into one Saturday afternoon, making it possible for those new in parenting, or in the job market, to obtain the flavor of conferences that can cost hundreds of dollars. Of course it's not practical to give detailed summaries of what speakers say in this forum, but we hope to share a little of the flavor here. For a more complete and enjoyable experience, you can attend the next Harrisburg Acts in May, or if you don't want to wait, attend the Acts of Recovery in York on December 18th, at the Eastminster Presbyterian Church, see the flyer on the links page.

The afternoon got off to a great start with the sharing of Krystal B from the Monday night Parkton Step Group of Parkton MD. From an early age, she thought it was all about her and her perception was that life sucked. If she got a new bicycle, the girl down the street would show up with a better one. Later in life she'd just take the other girl's bike, but we're getting ahead of ourselves here. At age 14, Krystal found that alcohol was the solution to these kinds of problems that made her feel less than. Her school mates started getting part time jobs after school, so she came up with the perfect solution to that ~ she started a career in the pharmaceutical trade. This was ideal because she could do it at the same time as school, and she was doing something that she liked that was convenient. This lifestyle just got her to AA (and jail) a lot quicker and so she got a November 2001 sobriety date at age 18. She tried the non-involvement style AA without Steps and Sponsors and found it didn't do much for her. She finally got desperate enough to get a sponsor, she could admit her powerlessness, but she told her sponsor she couldn't pray because she didn't believe in God. Her sponsor said she didn't care what she believed, and God doesn't either. Get on your knees and pray! She was beaten and willing to do what she was told. She has gained a freedom she never had. She shared tear provoking stories of amends she made and the joy they have given her.

She was followed by Matt L from the Nooner Group of Hershey, a new Tuesday meeting at 500 West Chocolate Ave. He says he always felt like a turd in the punch bowl of life and people wondered what he was doing here. At first he drank to fit in, but hated the taste of alcohol. He soon learned to love the effect it had on him. He developed a drinking problem, but then he found he had a not drinking problem too. He kept having to go to court and having judges tell him he'd have to stop drinking, but although he'd agree, he just couldn't do it. He went to counseling and was prescribed to AA meetings, and even got a sponsor. He bought a house, changed jobs, got married, quit smoking, but nothing else changed and he was absolutely miserable. He changed sponsors, and started working the Steps. On the Fourth Step his first resentment was against God, but there was a lot more. His sponsor asked how those things made him feel, to which he replied, angry. His sponsor suggested that maybe the anger was underlying something else. After considerable reflection, he realized that it was based on fear, and what a revelation that was! His recovery really began when he became willing to be honest as it tells us in How It Works.

After a break for hot dogs and sauerkraut, we were treated to the sharing of Nancy P from Richmond, VA, whose topic was "Practical Experience". Nancy loved everything about drinking beer from the age of five. Everything about it became romanticized. By the end of her drinking, she lived in an abandoned house, ate in soup kitchens, and didn't even realize that she was homeless. She knows that if she takes a drink, she can have that back. She learned that in the First Step. She got a nurse, who seemed to like her on her many trips to the hospital, to sponsor her. When she got to Step Three, she said she couldn't do that prayer because she didn't believe in God. Her sponsor said she didn't care if Nancy believed in God or not, get on your knees and pray anyway. This is where the practical experience starts. If we take the actions that are suggested, even if we don't think they will work, we find that they change us, and we recover. She has learned to love AA and has gotten quite active in many aspects. One thing she feels is very important is to get an AA buddy to hang with. The herds in Africa teach us that it's the ones on the outside edges that the lions get.

To wrap up the afternoon was the sharing of Bob H from the Trudgers and Survivors Groups of Middletown. Bob talked about "Happy Destiny", which coincidentally was from the quote on page 164 that gave the Trudgers Group its name. Bob says he always wanted to be the leader of the pack, but secretly down deep inside he never felt like he was. He was always afraid, but afraid to tell anyone. When he was about 12 years old, his mother let him drink some Cold Duck, which made him feel grown up, and also made him very drunk. He LOVED the way it made him feel, and despite the terrible hangover the next day, he wanted that feeling again. He was never satisfied with who he was, he wanted to be someone different. He found that he suffered from a spiritual malady, and that he is in trouble when he starts thinking that he knows what is best. His experience has been that it is not how he works his head, but how he works his feet. He sees new people become enthusiastic about helping out at their home groups, and then when they get to feeling better as a result, sometimes they get too busy to keep doing what got them feeling so good and they go backward. That is what trudging the happy road of destiny is about, it is a journey, not a destination.

In order to recover we have to uncover.

New Meetings and Changes

There will be a new closed discussion meeting, called There Is A Solution, starting on January 6th at the Aldergate United Methodist Church in Mechanicsburg. The meeting will be from 6:30 to 7:30PM each Thursday in Room 207 at 1480 Jerusalem Road, Mechanicsburg. See the flyer on the links page.

Don't forget the hot line/cell phone training at fellowship House on Sunday December 5 at 3:30PM. There will be free food and fellowship after the one hour workshop. Take the worry out of doing this much needed service work.

A new meeting in Hershey, called the NOONER IN HERSHEY has started at 12:00PM at the United Church of the Redeemer, 500 West Chocolate Ave, Hershey. (Just around the bend as you enter Hershey on 422, coming from Harrisburg) Bring your lunch, come late, leave early if you must. Copy the Flyer.

Two editorial changes were made to the meeting schedule  to correct incorrect starting times. The West Shore Women's Group meets Wednesday at 6:00PM, and the Up The Creek Group starts at 8:00PM Thursdays.

The Any Lengths Group has had to change locations to the Progress Immanuel Presbyterian Church, and as a result other changes had to occur. The new meeting location is 3640 Ash Street (from the old location, go in Rt 22 for three blocks toward Harrisburg to Park Street  (BALLOONS  ALOT ON LEFT) Turn left onto Park Street, Church is 2 blocks on right). The group will meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 7:00PM and both are closed, non-smoking, discussion meetings.

19th Street is starting it's monthly dances again. They will be on the first Saturday of the month unless there may be something else going on at the Fellowship House. Adult admissions cost $5.00. It should be a great time for all.  Any questions or directions to the Fellowship House at 1251 So. 19th St. Harrisburg, call Bill P. at 215-8377.

Please support the Friday night Women's meeting at the Dauphin County Prison. For more information on how to do this important service work, call Sondra D at 566-7666.

Every day is a gift.
That is why we call it the present.


This-n-That

Don't forget the Harrisburg Area Intergroup meeting Thursday December 2, at 6:45pm, and the District 36 General Service Rep meeting on Monday December 13, at 6:30; both meetings need your support. The Intergroup Bookstore is still open for business following the HAI meeting and on Saturday mornings from 10:00 till 11:15 for Groups to restock their literature cabinets with books and pamphlets. The Bookstore is now fully restocked, so if you've been waiting for literature to come in, check out the availability of your favorite books or pamphlets.

November Intergroup Meeting

At the November meeting of Intergroup, Chairperson Albert D opened the meeting with the serenity prayer. Bob B who has been serving as Central Office Manager for the past couple of years has asked that someone step forward to take over these important duties of managing the Central Office, and the Hot Line. We thank Bob for his dedicated service and wish him the best of successes in his new service commitments in Lebanon County. 

The State Hospital was covered by the There's More To Life in November, and Albert has volunteered to take a meeting to the large group of alcoholics at the Tuesday State Hospital meeting in the absence of any group willing to commit.. The There's More To Life Group also responded to cell phone calls in November. Groups volunteering to take the phone for December and beyond are  Hershey (Dec.), and 40th Street (Jan.). Volunteers for the various county and state prison and Gaudenzia Juvenile facilities continue to carry the message to those who hope to change their lives through a more spiritual way of living; if you'd like to benefit from this 12th Step opportunity, see your Intergroup Rep, or leave a message with the hot line at 234-5390.

 

Joy isn't the absence of pain ~
It is the presence of God.


Traditions Checklist

TRADITION TWELVE:  Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.

  1. Why is it a good idea for me to place the common welfare of all AA members before individual welfare? What would happen to me if AA as a whole disappeared?

  2. When I do not trust AA's current servants, who do I wish had the authority to straighten them out?

  3. In my opinions of and remarks about other AAs, am I implying membership requirements other than a desire to stay sober?

  4. Do I ever try to get a certain AA group to conform to my standards, not its own?

  5. Have I a personal responsibility in helping an AA group fulfill its primary purpose? What is my part?

  6. Does my personal behavior reflect the Sixth Tradition -- or belie it? (An AA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the AA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.)

  7. Do I do all I can do to support AA financially? When is the last time I anonymously gave away a Grapevine subscription?

  8. Do I complain about certain AA's behavior -- especially if they are paid to work for AA? Who made me so smart?

  9. Do I fulfill all AA responsibilities in such a way as to please privately even my own conscience? Really?

  10. Do my utterances always reflect the Tenth Tradition, or do I give AA critics real ammunition? (Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never be drawn into public controversy.)

  11. Should I keep my AA membership a secret, or reveal it in private conversation when that may help another alcoholic (and therefore me)? Is my brand of AA so attractive that other drunks want it?

  12. What is the real importance of me among more than a million AAs?


*The Traditions Checklist Questions were originally published in the AA Grapevine
in conjunction with a series on the Twelve Traditions that began in November 1969, and ran through September 1971. Sobriety News prints the Checklist for the number of the month that corresponds to the number of the Tradition that it deals with, because of the prohibitive length of all twelve. It is important that we be aware of the Twelve Traditions in our lives of recovery, because they help assure that AA will continue to be here for us, and for others who want it.
Printed by permission. THE AA GRAPEVINE INC., PO BOX 1980, GRAND CENTRAL STATION, NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10163-1980

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Contributions are made to Food For Thought by recovering alcoholics who have this outlet to share feelings and opinions about living in recovery. The material included does not necessarily express the views of Harrisburg Area Intergroup, or Alcoholics Anonymous. It is simply an opportunity for recovering alcoholics to express thoughts they would like to share. Why not share something of yourself with our readers? The history of our fellowship is significant to our understanding of what a miracle is this Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, and we therefore will publish a three part account of the impact the Oxford Group had on the formation of AA. We thank our Archives Committee for gleaning this information from the internet as it was written by Ray R. of the Seminole, Florida Find Yourself Group.

PART III

 

Jim Newton Enters the Scene

    Rowland Hazard, who rescued Ebby in August, 1934, had a thorough indoctrination in Oxford Group teachings, and he passed many of these along to Ebby and Bill W. Soon after Bill’s release from Towns Hospital at the end of 1934, Bill and the rest of the alcoholic contingent of the Oxford Group began gathering at Stewart’s Cafeteria in New York following their regular meeting.

    Shep Cornell, then a member of the Oxford Group business team that included Rowland, Sam Shoemaker, and Hanford Twitchell, was also a recovering alcoholic. Lois Wilson talked of regular attendance at the Oxford Group meetings with Bill, Shep, and Ebby. James Houck, a nonalcoholic Oxford Group member in Frederick, Maryland, stated that Bill W. went to many Oxford Group meetings at the Francis Scott Key Hotel in Frederick and always focused on alcohol.

    He was obsessed with the idea of carrying the message. The conclusion is that Bill had a wide acquaintance in Oxford Group circles, not just confined to Sam and Calvary House. Bill told Houck that he worked on 50 drunks in the first 6 months with no success.

    Calvary House was Sam’s residence and contained an Oxford Group bookstore. Calvary Mission was at another location in the "gas house" district. Thousands of people passed through the mission where they were offered lodging, free meals, and Oxford Group meetings every night. Tex Francisco was its superintendent in 1934 when Bill W. showed up there.

    Now enters the man most certainly responsible for the fateful Akron meetings between Dr. Bob and Bill W. Jim Newton was surely the sole catalyst that ordained that the Oxford Group would be in place in Akron when Bill showed up there in 1935. This amazing string of circumstances plays out as follows:

    Jim, at age 20, was a luggage salesman in New York. He had come upon an Oxford Group meeting quite by accident in Massachusetts in 1923 when he was 18 years old. (Actually, he had been looking for fun and games that night!)

    He was converted at the party, got on his knees, and gave the direction of his life to God at that time. He met a lady named Eleanor Forde, who greatly influenced his thinking about the movement. (He and Eleanor were to meet again and marry 20 years later in 1943.

    Several turns of fate placed Jim Newton in Akron and installed our next cast of characters.

    These were both Oxford Group members and regular attendees of Oxford Group meetings. We are talking here about the intertwined relationships of Henrietta Seiberling, Sam Shoemaker, Frank Buchman, T. Henry and Clarace Williams, and Anne and Dr. Bob.

    Jim Newton went to Ft. Myers, Florida, in 1926, at age 21, to visit his father, and they bought a 35-acre tract of land across the road from the Thomas Edison estate.

    Jim became as an adopted son to Mr. and Mrs. Edison, and often acted as host and toastmaster at Edison’s famous birthday parties, which were attended by Henry Ford, Harvey Firestone, and many other world-renowned business leaders and public figures.

    Here begins another key circumstance to set the stage in Akron. Ohio. Harvey Firestone Sr., offered Jim a job as secretary to the Firestone Tire and Rubber Company in 1926, and moved him to Akron, putting him in residence at the Portage Country Club adjacent to the Firestone Estate.

    Jim worked for Firestone eleven years and was being groomed as president of the company when he resigned and went full time with the Oxford Groups. Firestone’s clergyman was Rev. Walter Tunks. Jim joined Tunks’ church and became active in raising funds for their birthday committee.

    Jim had been in New York for the Jack Dempsey vs. Gene Tunney fight. While there he confessed to Frank Buchman that his life was in turmoil and he was about to take a "geographical cure."

    Buchman sent him to meet Sam Shoemaker at the Calvary Church and he made an Oxford Group confession to Sam and was led to join one of the Oxford Group business teams.

    These were groups of important men who made attempts to convert others to the Oxford Group method of spirituality. Jim frequently met with the aforementioned Shep Cornell and Rowland Hazard. He met T. Henry and Clarace Williams, husband and wife Oxford Group members from Akron and members of Walter Tunks’ church.

    The business team put on house parties in various cities at the finest hotels and clubs. In January of 1933, Frank Buchman, leading a team of thirty men and women, descended on Akron for the first time to give testimonials at the Mayflower Hotel and in Akron churches, and initiate the townspeople in the experiences of the Oxford Group.

    Here we can clearly see input from Jim Newton’s parties with Firestone and Tunks’ Episcopal Church group to influence the choice of Akron as the site of this endeavor, rather than some other city.

    Had Jim not already been a business team member and in place in Akron, it is unlikely that Buchman would ever have chosen this small, unknown city as a place to pursue his evangelistic efforts.

    Jim was the spokesman who introduced Buchman at all the affairs that week in Akron. Now our cast of characters is nearly complete and in place.

    Still to appear on the scene, however, are Henrietta Seiberling, Anne and Bob Smith, and T. Henry and Clarace Williams.

    When Jim first arrived in Akron he had been welcomed into the Firestone family, and had become fast friends with a son, Russell (Bud) Firestone.

    Bud had a very bad drinking problem and had already been sent to several hospitals to no avail. Jim went with Bud to still another drying-out place, on the Hudson River in New York, and stayed through the entire 30 day program.

    Then he took Bud to an Episcopal Conference in Denver to which the Oxford Group people had been invited. On the train east again after the party, he was able to introduce Bud to his old Oxford Group minister, Sam Shoemaker.

    Alone with Sam, Bud surrendered his life to God in a private car on the train. His life changed, and his family situation and marriage were saved. Now Akron was the place where AA was to be founded. Jim Newton had helped bring to the city the Oxford Group message of his alcoholic friend, Bud Firestone. The message led to Bud’s "miraculous" recovery, which lasted for a time.

    The message and the recovery were broadcast to an interested community by a grateful father, Harvey Firestone, Sr., and by widespread press accounts. Clarace Williams was there and joined the Oxford Group along with T. Henry Williams and began regularly attending the meetings.

    About the same time, a lady named Henrietta Seiberling, the wife of John Seiberling of the Seiberling Tire and Rubber Company, found herself with personal and marital problems, and separated from her husband.

    Henrietta was living in the Seiberling mansion gate house, where Dr. Bob and Bill W. would have their first meeting.

Enter...Dr. Bob S.

    She turned to the Oxford Group and attended the first meetings at the Mayflower Hotel. She went with a woman named Anne Smith, the wife of a well-known Akron surgeon who was in deep trouble with his drinking. The progenitors now assume their roles. A kindly and missionary-oriented couple, the Williams, had been impressed with the Oxford Group message, and had a home to offer for a meeting place. A gifted and compassionate lady named Henrietta Seiberling, who had mastered some of the Oxford group principles, had her eye on using the biblical principles to help her good friend, Dr. Bob Smith, with his drinking problem.

    Add to this mix the efforts of his wife, Anne, who assembled books and spiritual readings and principles from the Bible, the Oxford Group, and various other Christian writings, all the while praying for a solution to her husband’s seemingly hopeless drinking problem.

    The talented and very alcoholic surgeon became the focus of all these efforts. He did a lot of spiritual reading, attended a lot of meetings, but remained drunk. Now all the earlier seeming coincidences converge, and this story merges into the facts we all know from our AA literature.

    Onto this scene landed the "rum hound" from New York, moved by what both Bill Wilson and Henrietta Seiberling said they felt was the guidance of God. Bill had recovered from his disease, and was determined to stay sober by seeking out and helping another drunk.

    The "rum hound from New York," —Bill’s self-description when he made the fateful phone call to Henrietta—’~ust happened" to bring to Akron some solutions heretofore never assembled in one place and delivered by just one person: 1) Some important knowledge about the disease of alcoholism accumulated through the work of Dr. Silkworth at Towns Hospital in New York. 2)An important spiritual solution to the problem that had been passed from Dr. Carl Jung to Rowland Hazard and then on to Bill by Ebby Thacher. 3)A validation of this spiritual solution by the scholarly studies of Professor William James. 4) A linkage between the problem of alcoholism and this solution that God could and would solve the problem if a relationship were sought with Him by using the Oxford Group’s practical program of action, which was already proven by the results experienced by Rowland and Ebby when they followed the Oxford Group program.

    In Akron, T. Henry and Clarace Williams and Henrietta Seiberling were attending Oxford Group meetings at the Mayflower Hotel and elsewhere.

    Dr. Bob Smith also attended with his wife, Anne. He shied away from talking about his problem publicly, and continued drinking. In her concern for Bob, Henrietta suggested to T. Henry that if they could set up a smaller more private meeting perhaps Bob might feel more at ease and be able to make a confession in the Oxford Group fashion, and a commitment to sobriety.

    Those meetings started on a Wednesday in April of 1935—just one month before Bill W. came to Akron.

    The meetings were usually led by T. Henry, Henrietta, or Florence Main, and at one of these Dr. Bob was able to confess that he was a secret drinker and needed help as he could not stop.

    This was the very place that was to become home to the "about to begin" Alcoholic Contingent of the Oxford Group.

    We can now see how all these characters contributed to putting Dr. Bob and Bill at a meeting in Henrietta’s home in the Gate House of the Seiberling Estate—a meeting which led to the founding of Alcoholics Anonymous.

* * * * *

   We can find no references anywhere to indicate that Bill Wilson considered or made any conscious effort to locate an Oxford Group member when he made his desperation phone call in the Mayflower Hotel in Akron on May 11, 1935. Henrietta Seiberling wrote as follows:

    Bill looked into the cocktail room and was tempted and thought, "Well, I’ll just go in there and get drunk and forget it, and that will be the end of it all"

    Instead, having been sober five months in the Oxford Group, he said a prayer. He received guidance to look at a ministers’ directory board and a strange thing happened. He put his finger on one name— Tunks.

    The Rev. Walter Tunks was Harvey Firestone ‘s minister, and Firestone had brought Buchman and thirty Oxford Group members to Akron for ten days in gratitude for their help for his son, Russell, a drunkard. Out of the act of gratitude of this one father, this whole chain started.

Our thanks go out to Ray R., a member of
the Find Yourself Group in Seminole Florida,
who wrote this historical account, and to his sponsee,
Bill C., who prepared it for distribution on the internet.


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