
New
Editor for SN
Al D., of the Middletown groups, has graciously agreed to take over the
editorship of Sobriety News, beginning with the July issue. The current
editor, Bill C., is stepping down just because he thinks these jobs should
rotate throughout the fellowship as much as possible. It's too easy,
he says, to develop "ownership" of something we're only entrusted with.
We wish Al well in his new service venture and look forward to what surely
will be a fresh approach to getting out the word in the Harrisburg area.
PENNSCYPAA
picnic...the ultimate!
Here it is! The picnic that will give new meaning to outdoor fun!
PENNSCYPAA---the Pennsylvania State Conference of Young People in AA---will
hold its last pre-convention fun(d)raiser June 23 at Veterans Memorial
Park in Susquehanna Township. That's on Elmerton Avenue right across
from the State Police headquarters. Tickets are eight bucks each,
but that includes more than eight bucks could buy anywhere else.
There'll be hot dogs, hamburgers and soda the day long; two big meals,
all kinds of fun and games, two 50-50 drawings, and raffles---13-inch color
TV, women's roller blades (size 8), CD player with changer, a whole mess
of recovery-related items, and lots more. There are tennis and basketball
courts if that's your thing, and if your kids have a preference for some
game they play at home, bring it along. PENNSCYPAA (it's not just
for the young in years, but the young in spirit as well) has been staging
a round of exciting events to finance the statewide convention, which they
will host here. Give them your solid support. It's truly refreshing
to have their enthusiasm permeate our ranks the way it has for the past
couple of years.
Mechanicsburg
Serenity Group anniversary set
Mechanicsburg Serenity Group will mark 20 years of unity, service and recovery
with big doings from 6 to 9 p.m. August 13 at the Mechanicsburg Presbyterian
Church, 300 East Simpson Street, Mechanicsburg. The guest speaker---a
really good one, from what we hear---will be Fran H. from New York City.
The celebration is open to the whole family. There'll be lots of
good food (you can bring a dessert) and lots of good fellowship.
Mark it down now. Group anniversaries are important. They remind
us that a lot of people who walked the path ahead of us made it possible
for us to be sober today. And without them...who knows?
Speakers
and other stuff
On the program at the Bridge Street Sunday 8 p.m. meeting are Bob
S., 16th Street Group, June 10; Tom M., Pine Street Group, June
17; Joel M., Attitude Adjustment meeting, June 24; and Tom B.,
Up the Creek Group, July 1.
Speakers at the 19th Street Friday 8:30 p.m. meeting will be Joe W.,
June 8; Christine S., June 15; and Linda M., June 22.....The
19th Street anniversary meeting is held the last Friday of each month.....Here's
a note you should have gotten months ago: The Perdix meeting
has moved to 301 N. High Street, Duncannon, Wednesdays at 8 p.m....A new
7:30 p.m. meeting started June 6 at the Newberry Church of God.
Take exit 13 off I-83 South and go past Rutters. The church is on
the left and there's parking in back which you will find if you take a
left at the first street beyond the church and then make another left until
you see the lot in back of the church. The Back to Basics
Group is looking for support for its Friday 7 p.m. closed discussion
at the Yocumtown Church of God, 160 Red Mill Road, Etters....Seen
on the front of a pickup truck at Fellowship House: "This too shall pass."
That message probably took on a whole new meaning to anyone who saw it
in a rear-view mirror as it approached from the rear....The Elizabethtown
Group will mark its 26 anniversary June 14 at Christ Lutheran Church, 75
E. High Street, E'town. Things will get underway with food and fellowship
at 7 p.m. At 8 p.m. Harry R. will share his experience, strength and hope.
Drop
by...see what's cookin'
Even if you're not an intergroup rep, you can get a taste of the big picture
of recovery in the Harrisburg Area just by sitting in on an Intergroup
meeting or two. Nowhere else will you find people pitching in to
carry the message more eagerly than you'll find right here. And lately
there's been a heightened aura of excitement surrounding the meetings.
Attendance is up and some extremely important developments are in the works,
so come on out---the first Thursday of every month at Fellowship house,
6:45 p.m.
Thanks
for the bucks!
Contributions for May totalled $577.15 from six groups---19th Street,
40th Street, How It Works, Women's Serenity, Survivors, and Concordia.
That brings the year-to-date total to $2,036 and it looks like things are
getting better. Thanks much to those who have contributed---some
of them more than once. If your group hasn't contributed this year, Intergroup
would appreciate your giving it some serious thought. There are lots of
coffee cans with money in them sitting on shelves in meeting rooms, and
where better to spend it? Perhaps your group hestitates to send anything
in because the members think the amount they can afford would be insignificant.
Not to worry! Every penny counts, and every penny is used to carry
the message to some alcoholic who might not otherwise hear it.
Remember, if your group is sending a contribution to Intergroup, make sure
the check legend tells us that. Checks should be mailed to HAI, 1251 S.
19th St., Harrisburg, PA 17104.
On another note, there's a little piece of literature making the rounds
to try to boost AA contributions. It makes a good point---several
good points: In 1960 a "Coke" was priced at 10 cents; now it's as high
as a buck. Coffee was a dime; now it's a buck or more. In 1960
cigarettes were 25-50 cents; now they're edging near $4. And where
has the dollar outlay remained constant---or, shall we say, stagnant? AA,
of course. Someone figured that back in 1960, contributions averaged
about a buck. And 41 years later? Still a buck.
That's pretty funny
in a fellowship whose program is based in large part on getting in touch
with reality.
Ah,
yes... We remember so well!
The memories were rich, the chicken was barbecued to a tasty turn, the
speakers were inspiring---that's an understatement---the weather turned
out just fine, and more than a few tears were shed as we remembered our
dear friends who have died in sobriety. In short, the Memorial Day
weekend at Fellowship House was everything anyone had hoped for, and then
more. Woven through all the events was the 50th anniversary of the formation
of Alanon Association, Inc., the corporation that was formed to build Fellowship
House.
The festivities got underway at 8 a.m. Sunday with Sam P., of Dover, sharing
his experience about his early
days of sobriety at Fellowship House and what the "clubhouse" means to
him. Like the other speakers, Sam had a strong word to say about
why he keeps coming back to share. "I hear some old-timers say they
just don't have time to do this sort of thing," he said. "I don't think
that's fair. Thank God, the old-timers were around when I got here.
I'm not sure where I would be, if anywhere, had they not been here.
So I make sure I'm there for other newcomers. Emma G., of York, and Bill
F., of Maryland, echoed his words as they told their own stories.
Each speaker meeting was preceded by a five minute presentation on the
history of Alanon Assoc. Inc. Great stuff all of it.
At the Memorial Tree Sunday, about 50 members got together to say thanks
to those who were here for them but aren't around anymore. We're going
to list them here---the ones who are gone, that is. If you know someone
who died in sobriety but isn't on the list, let us know---through your
Intergroup rep or the 19th Street Group. Here they are: Bill W., Dr. Bob,
Ed H., Ed C., Lucy H., Kier E., Bob "Stony" S., Robert "Spanky" S., Betty
G., Peggy W., Paul Sm., Don "Cabby Don" K., Keith B., Jimmy, Bill M., Greg
K., Jim P., Joe B., Wally M., Joyce, Mick N., Emil L., Jerry L., Bruce
O., Frank M., Mike M., Stan L., Billie, Jeremy C., Ray Y., Brevard S.,
June N., "Ponytail" Bruce, Allen R., Winnie B., Joe C., Jimmy C., Ollie,
Dick P., Jay Heim, Margaret S., Ed "Keep Comin' Back!" L., John M., Ike
E., Dottie, Dr. Robert S. (another one), Charlie G., Kenny, Charlie E.,
Leigh L. (who died earlier in the week), Mark, Paul St., Smokey M., Carol
M., Les "Good Les" M. There are countless more whose names we don't have.
So it was a great celebration. We thank everyone who had a hand in
it---19th Street Group, Fellowship House Committee, Harry M.'s crew at
the chicken sacrifice altar, the Alanon Assoc. Inc. board members and the
125 folks who scarfed down the dinner.
Pearl of the month
have
been much stronger than those that might break us. Though the individual
AA is under no human coercion, is at almost perfect personal liberty, we
have, nevertheless, achieved a wonderful unity on vital essentials.
Treasury
takes a dip
Sometimes it's two steps forward, three back. Last month, we were
able to improve somewhat on our previous month's bank balance. In
April, however, we fell behind again---thanks to smaller contributions
and greater expenses. The report for April from Craig P., our treasurer,
shows that we started the month with $3,670.18, including our 2,000 "prudent
reserve." We ended the month with $2,935.27, or $734.91 less than the start-of-the-month
balance. Our income in April totalled $648.81, consisting of
$290 in contributions, $346.30 from sale of schedules, and $12.51 interest.
Our expenses totalled $1,383.72: Medical Bureau (telephone answering service),
$197; Verizon (our own telephones), $122.60; Rent, $200; literature, $814.12;
and deposit for picnic, $50.
Empty
meeting seats---not to worry!
If you don't see some of the familiar faces at your meetings June 9-10,
it's probably because a pretty good number of local members visit Akron,
Ohio, for Founders' Day this time of year. For the relative newcomer, Going
to Founders' Day is a sort of rite of passage in AA---once visited, never
forgotten. And the inspiration of the weekend somehow transforms
the lukewarm AA member into a "Big Book" thumper of the first order. So
if you hear of anyone who has a room reservation but can't meet the commitment,
don't hesitate. Snap it up! You'll be with many thousands of other
AAs in a barrage of meetings, special programs and entertainment like you've
never witnessed before. And if you can hold your emotions in check
during the historic tour, then you're more iron-nerved than some.
There's something awe-inspiring about standing at the gate house of the
Seiberling Mansion where Bill W. first met with Dr. Bob or visiting the
home of Dr. Bob and Annie and a lot of other places where the seeds of
our salvation were sown. If you're into wildest dreams, how about
this one: three or four buses from Harrisburg, chartered by Harrisburg
Area Intergroup, all headed for Akron and a glorious celebration of sobriety
at Founders' Day 2002. It could be done. Oh yes, it could.
Fellowship
of the Spirit
The 2001 Fellowship of the Spirit Conference is scheduled for July 26-29
at Silver Creek Resort, Silver Creek, Colorado. This is a Big Book-based
event that offers workshops on all the Twelve Steps and a lot of speakers,
including Jack S., of Denver; Bob, of Las Vegas, and Frank M., of Chicago.
There's also strong participation from Alanon. If you're interested,
you'll probably want to move quickly. Reservations are limited to
575 people. For info, call Tom Brown at 303-388-1147 or e-mail him at www.fots.com.
Cell
phones to augment Hotline starting in August
Tentative plans call for the use of a rotating cellular telephone as a
key to improving the AA Hotline beginning in August. A group of four Intergroup
testers have been using the cell phones since the start of May and will
continue through July to work out any bugs in a system that has worked
well in other areas---most notably on the West Shore. The plan is
to have groups volunteer to handle the cell phone for one month at a time.
Tina B., Hotline manager, will provide thorough training. The cell phone
basically will serve as a buffer during times when the "live" Hotline
at Fellowship House is not being manned by volunteers. In addition
to providing more constant coverage at a reduced cost, the cell phone is
expected to permit more detailed record keeping. More importantly,
we will be much more certain to have recovering alcoholics talking directly
with those seeking the help of AA. As things stand now, a commercial
answering service handles calls when the AA Hotline isn't staffed by volunteers,
and the commercial service frequently is not staffed by folks who understand
AA or the problems of a suffering alcoholic who is reaching out for help.
Your group can play a major part in making this new system work well.
When the call goes out for volunteers, just make sure your group is at
the head of the line.
Intergoup
participation continues to improve
The list of groups sending a representative to Intergroup meetings keeps
growing. And with the increase in attendance, there has been a general
increase in the liveliness of meetings. It seems also that more and
more really important issues are getting an airing. It all gives
added meaning to "together we can do what none of us can do alone."
Groups at the May meeting were Up the Creek, a new Jackson Tower group,
Hershey, It Works, Joy of Living, 19th Street, 40th Street, Ain't You Had
Enough, Bridge Street, Carlisle, Desire, Dillsburg Area, Lambda, Pine Street,
Serenity (Mechanicsburg), Survivors, There's More to Life, Trudgers, West
Shore, Winding It Up, Women's Serenity (Camp Hill), and PENNSCYPAA.
Many others who aren't officially representatives attended. If you
want to see service in action, you're welcome to attend too---6:45 p.m.
the first Thursday of each month. Better yet, if your group has no
rep, why not send one.
What
God might say to us
This item is much longer than we usually choose to run, but here it is
because it's worth it. Jim D. passed it on.
If God spoke to AA, he might have said, "Unto your weak and feeble hands
I have entrusted a power beyond your estimation. To you
has been given that which has been denied the most learned of your fellows.
Not to scientists or statesmen, not even to priests and ministers have
I given this gift of healing other alcoholics, which I entrust to you.
It must be used unselfishly. It carries with it grave responsibilities.
No day can be too long, no demands on your time can be too urgent, no case
too pitiable, no task too hard, no effort too great. It must
be used with tolerance for I have restricted its application to no race,
no creed, and no denomination.
Personal criticism you must expect, lack of appreciation will be common,
ridicule will be your lot, and your motives will be mis-judged. Success
will not always attend your efforts in your work with other alcoholics.
You must be prepared for adversity, for what men call adversity is the
ladder you must use to ascend towards spiritual perfection. I shall
not exact of you beyond your capabilities. You are the selected because
of exceptional talents. Be careful always, if success does attend
your efforts, not to ascribe to personal superiority that to which you
can lay claim only by virtue of My gift.
If I had wanted learned men to accomplish this mission, My power would
have been entrusted to the physician and scientist. If I had wanted
eloquent men there would have been many anxious for this assignment, for
talk is the easiest used of all talents with which I have endowed mankind.
If I had wanted scholarly men, the world is filled with better qualified
than you, who would have been available. You were selected because
you have been the outcasts of the world, and your experience as a drunkard
has made, or should make you, humbly alert to the cries of distress that
come from lonely hearts of alcoholics everywhere. Keep in mind the
admission that you made on the day of your profession of AA---namely, that
you are powerless, and that it was only by your willingness to turn your
life and will into My keeping that relief came to you.
Think not that because you have been dry one year or two years or even
ten years that it is the result of your unaided efforts. The help
which has been keeping you normal will keep you so just as long as you
live this program which I have mapped out for you. Beware of pride
that comes from growth, the power of numbers, and invidious comparisons
between yourselves or your organization with other organizations whose
success depends on numbers, money, and position. These material things
are no part of your creed. The success of material organizations
comes from the pooling of joint assets; yours from the union of mutual
liabilities. Appeal for membership in material organizations is based
on the boastful recital of their accomplishments; yours on the humble admission
of weakness. The wealth of material organizations, when they take
their inventory, is measured by what they have left; yours, when you take
moral inventory, by what you have given."
Author unknown
Men's retreat still has a few open slots
There are still a few remaining slots open for the Men's Closed Spiritual Retreat, August 3-5 at Precious Blood Spiritual Center in Comumbia, PA. This marks the third year for this retreat---which was organized by men in the Harrisburg area but is now attracting friends from outside as well. The Twelfth Step will be the focus of this year's event---a close examination of the spiritual awakening, carrying of the message, and the help of another alcoholic that are spoken of so eloquently in that step. Precious Blood Spiritual Center offers beautiful rural surroundings, nice sleeping accomodations, and absolutely great food. Our leaders are all recovering alcoholics, whose experience guides us on our spiritual way through whole-group sessions and small group meetings. If you choose to join us, we can promise one thing: you will leave with a much richer and deeper understanding of the true gift that the Twelfth Step really offers us. For more info, call Moses B. at 232-4180; Bob S., at 761-6151; Bill C., at 362-9352; Jim B., at 232-4180; or Ed L., at 652-3801.
G.S.Rs: “Guardians
of the Traditions”
Bill W. once said that the GSR “may be the most
important job in A.A.” If
that’s the case, then how come our District only has 10 GSRs out of a
potential 53 regularly attending District meetings?
Imagine if you traveled to an area without a meeting, no AA
literature, not even a hotline to call for help. What would you do? Get
drunk? Do what Bill W. did and call
from a hotel bar pay phone in search of a wet drunk to 12-step and stay sober?
Imagine if you’re a single-parent, a shut-in, blind, deaf, non-bilingual, an
inmate, an ex-con, or a dry drunk released from a mental hospital or detox.
How would you go to any lengths if meetings and hotlines weren’t
available?
That’s where General Service Representatives (GSRs) come
in and ensure that the hand of AA is always available to anyone, anywhere.
GSRs encourage their Home groups to donate left over 7th
Tradition contributions to Intergroups, Areas, Districts, General Service
Office, etc. to guarantee that the hand of AA is available around the world thru
literature, films, pamphlets, speakers, prison and treatment facilities,
activities, meetings, and meeting schedules.
GSRs also protect the Traditions. We
discuss group actions that may affect AA as a whole.
For example, did you know that a closed meeting group that votes to open
a meeting is violating their own business group’s conscience, the 4th
Tradition, and is affecting AA as a whole?
Did you know that men’s meetings, women’s meetings, and gay meetings
are not violations of the 3rd Tradition? Controversial? You
bet; but, that’s why GSRs vote for delegates to represent AA at the annual
General Service Conference to discuss these matters to the General Service Board
and vote on these issues as a whole and uphold our 5th Tradition.
So, what’s this mean to YOU? Service work. You
or someone you know may need a two-year service commitment to stay sober.
We ask that you have 2-3 years of sobriety, belong to a Home group that
holds regular business meetings, and attend GSR meetings at 19th
Street, the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 6:30 p.m.
Alternate GSRs are welcome as well.
We need both of you to help carry on the Third Legacy of Service and
prevent AA from sinking into oblivion.
Beth H.,
40th Street Group GSR